“It’s normal to feel anxious about visiting someone who is dying.” So begins an article by Canadian Virtual Hospice that explains what to say to a friend who is dying.

Virtual Hospice's website also has articles on how to communicate in a variety of other situations when someone you know has a life-threatening condition.
 

Topics include:

• My dad doesn’t talk about his illness. How can I talk to him about dying?

• My friend who’s ill says he’s nearing the end, but he seems to be doing well. Is this normal?

• My husband is dying and refuses palliative care. What can I do?

• My husband is nearing the end. How can I calm his fears about dying?

• My mom has a lot of pain and is breaking down emotionally. She says she wants to die. I don't know how to help her. What can I do?

• What can I do to support my wife who’s dying and let her know she won’t be forgotten?

• My husband often vents his frustration and anger towards me. I know he is very ill and things aren’t going well, but how can I respond?

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